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In life, we earn something and lose
something. When we earn something which we like most, at that time we are very
much happy and we share the happiness with our loved ones. Meanwhile, they also
join our movement. But when we lose something which we like utmost or lose
someone we truly love and break our own's heart or struggle with situations etc. In
such situations, we always lose our calm and passion residing inside us. At
such times, very few people or no one comes to join and accompany with our
pain. Because these situations are always related with 5 kinds of grief. That
are,
- Anger
- Bargaining
- Denial
- Depression
- Acceptances.
Due to this grief, we suffer from
mental illness, dementia, and physical impairment.
Such kind of overwhelmed
situations are always putting ourselves
down. It tests our bold mindset, passions, and mainly tough resilient skills on our self.
Walt Disney, Stephen King, Bill Gates, Thomas Edison, Albert
Einstein, Abraham Lincoln, Michael Jordan, Elon Mask etc. These legendry guys failed
many times and lost so many things in their life but they never gave up.
Because of their strong resilient skills which made them unstoppable.
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Here are the 3 basic strategies Which Make You Resilient The person for becoming Highly Successful After Hard Failure
1) Remember: Everything
Happens for a Reasons, Love It, Accept It and Learn from It.
Resilient people never think about bad situations. Because
they know that suffering is a part of life. It does not mean that they always
welcome situations. They know tough times come and it will go. They will
suffer but amid that, they never discriminate about situations. They never
say to god why me but say why not me. Because tough
situations make them more successful than normal situations. That is the
reason when a tough time comes always enjoy it, accept it, and learn from it.
Because in that short period you learn so many things which make you different
from others.
2) Know Where to Give
Attention
As human beings, we always stick to the negative part of life.
Stick like a velcro. But resilient person never sticks with negativity. Always
work on the situations and give attention to turn them into his/her favor. A resilient person always does analyses about the situation from more than 10
different dimensions. Decide whether it requires careful attention or not. By
giving attention, if they can’t get the results or change the situations it
means, its a waste of time. The alternative is to accept the situations and move on
to other goals. It’s a vital and adorable skill if you want to be resilient.
3) Self-talk.
Resilient people always think before any action. They ask
these 3 questions before any conclusion
1) What I am Doing.?
2) Way of thinking is
correct/ Incorrect.?
3) Way of actions are
helping/harming.?
This question takes him/her back to their driver seat of their life cycle.
Conclusion:
Life Doesn't Get Easier or More Forgiving, We Get Stronger & More Resilient
Steve Maraboli
To become resilient is not an attribute or skill. It’s all
about thinking. It’s an ordinary process. Just willingness to go with that
process.
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