How To Build Self Confidence.

Little Things You Know but Never Try to an Apply.

Let understand what is self-confidence.?

Self Confidence is a positive emotion which will increase your performance as well as productivity.

On the basis of self-confidence, many people grab success and hold on to it. The best examples are the Indian kings and Indian soldiers.
Some of the examples are,

1.  Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj
2. Maha Rana Pratap
3. 36 Sikhs.

All of them had a great amount of self-confidence. When they entered into battle with very fewer amount of soldiers against the 100k soldier, that time they thought of, how we get out from this situation with less amount of damage. In such never situation, they never felt that will they lose the battle or they will die. Because they had a very strong and stable self-confidence on their skills and battling ability. Because of this, they won the battle with fewer soldiers.

Now, if I take an example of job Seekers who are facing an interview for the first time.

When the seat for an important interview, often our blood pressure and heart bear runs at peak. Also, at the same time, we start doubting on our strong abilities and skills. When the actual battle starts with an interviewer we lose the game in the first seven to eight questions. 

so,

How Can You Build Strong Long lasting Stable Self Confidence for Any of Your Examinations/interviews?

1) Strong Preparation

We heard one idiom from childhood i.e, "practice makes a man perfect". If you work hard and invest enough energy in your respective work definitely you get your desired results. When you prepared hard for something from a long time or you are doing something regularly for ( e.g  You are regularly driving a car on the street so that you have better control over the speed, break, gear transmission and more about your self-confidence over the judgement is 100% accurate, stable and strong.) Like this way if you practise it perfectly your self-confidence your self become stable and strong.

2) Follow Your Own Way, Own Strategy.

The best example is the interview.
Most of the time all the interview divided into three parts,

• Basic questions
• Technical question
• Salary Negotiation

Most of us, those who are giving an interview the first time s/he start preparing basic questions and negotiation round of the interview from the internet. No doubt about that, the internet is the best source for preparing anything. But,
it is a huge difference between getting to understand something and mugging up the same thing.

Our tendency is if something is readily available why we spend time on research and all the necessary question of the interview is mugged up rather than prepared by its own way. 

But,
If we prepare the basic questions by our own way we never fumble, never forgot and our self-confidence automatically comes on our face. 

So that if you preparing something, you must follow your comfortable way, prepare own strategy to tackle the obstacles.

3) Start Taking Risk

Always try to take a safe calculated risk. Try to leave your comfort zone and start thinking different from others. If you start taking the risk, start tackling your problem with your own strategy because of this, the self-confidence over your strategy, your abilities and over your skills getting increases.

Always remember one basic idiom i.e "try try but don't cry". Take a risk, prepare a strategy and execute it as early as possible.

4) Take Feedback

After execution of your plan take feedback from your client, externals parties, your superiors etc. Let likewise, you take feedback from them and analyse your mistakes and loopholes in your execution. This will really increase your self-confidence and give you. self boost for upcoming tasks

Do's

• Be honest with your self
• Practise makes man's perfect
• Grab the opportunity and ready to take the challenge

Don't

• Follow your strengths. Keep trying to improve your weaknesses but don't focus excessively on your weakness. 
• Don't hesitate from external factors
• Don't worry about society, community and what will say it.

Hope this really helps you to boost your self-confidence. If you follow these steps tour confidence will be strong, long-lasting and stable like Chhatrapati Shivaji Maharaj, 36 Sikhs. Maharana Pratap.