We know that, if we want to achieve something, we have to work hard. But people's criticism, what people will say, public disapproval and fear of other people, etc., such kinds of worries drag us down from our goal. Often it happens that we feel scared, tense and anxious during raising a hand in between the meeting, walking through strangers and during public speaking.
Because in today's time, other opinions,
respect, and beliefs seem to
be much more valuable than our
self-respect and self-belief. When we get negative opinions
from society, community and outliners at that time, it is a very embarrassing
moment for us. Eventually, we take their opinions seriously and this way we are harming our skills, potential, and abilities
because of invaluable opinions.
Then,
How to conquer the desired goal without worrying about criticisms of other people.?
1) Know Your Self
When people embarrass you as well
as your abilities and skills that time you must decide whether
they are right or wrong. Next, How you can decide this..?
You can decide this by knowing
your self deeply. Since birth, no one is perfect. You have to spend some time
on yourself so that you interact with your soul (By only meditating) and
discuss inwardly what are
your abilities, skills, strengths, and weaknesses. This thing no one can say perfectly better than you. According to that results, you decide whether haters or shouter are right
or wrong.
2) Develop Your Own Philosophy
It is all about your beliefs and
personal values. Before moving in forwarding direction ask one question to your self. Whatever I am doing, is it correct..?? is it good
for humanity.? (Likewise, ask questions related to nation, society, family, and friend). After giving the right answer,
now craft your personal philosophy. This philosophy will protect you from other
people's criticisms.
Personal philosophy example,
Never give up.
Yes, don't sit back,
step back and bounce back.
Karma is bigger than destiny.
Hard work always pays off.
No matter. I will push myself till
my breaking point.
Likewise, develop your own
philosophy and commit to it until you reach your desired goal. Speak loudly
inwardly or in publically when someone provokes you and your abilities. This is the way you can protect
yourself from criticisms, negative feedback, and sledging.
Also, you can read,
Also, you can read,
5 Ultra Way To Improve Your Focus.
Thank you
Nimesh Waghela
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